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@Swithunus
I’m very glad you didn’t really mean “father figure” or anything…that would have been extremely uncomfortable/painful for me at least. I don’t know how many other posts you looked at on my blog, but my one entitled “Unloving Kiss” might help to explain my…feelings…towards describing my relationship even remotely as “patriarchal”. It’s not something I’d ever do, for fear of flashbacks.
But to actually answer your question, no I don’t even think of him as being older most of the time. Other that the grey in his temples, he often gets confused for a man of about 10 years younger (of course, people also mistake ME for being 20 instead of 29, so it’s STILL not a wash!) He is incredibly funny, watches cartoons, reads comics, plays video games, is the Dungeon Master our group’s role playing games, and has *ahem* noticeable ADHD. If anything, I’m the more mature one in the relationship…I imagine its similar to dating an 19 year old, honestly.
Of course, I’m into all the same hobbies so I can’t really talk. As we like to say, “Growing OLD is mandatory. Growing UP is optional”.
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Han Solo says:
July 9, 2013 at 4:54 pm
@Swith
Agree that there if no sex is going on and you ask and the guy says she’s his gf and you ask her and she says he’s just a friend that the girl is the one to believe usually.