Morpheus says:
January 30, 2014 at 11:32 am
Possible outcomes:
1) She doesn’t show (most cases). Guy pontificates: “I don’t know why she didn’t show. She must be busy”
2) She shows, drinks and dines for free and then leaves. Guy pontificates, “I think that went pretty well…”
3) She is very slutty, very horny, and equally desperate, meets him and has dinner and puts out. Guy pontificates, “I played that smooth.”
He is wrong on all three counts. Even when (rare instance) he scored he didn’t do so because he bought her a lot of shite…she would have anyway. In the same way sending a photo of that type might turn out okay. But not because the photo was a good move and “got her hamster spinning”.
Liz,
I think when a guy “gets the girl” or “scores” or whatever, it always becomes tricky to narrow it down to the exact causes. Heck, sometimes I’ll bet the woman doesn’t even know herself why as the ultimate decision is a driven by a mixture of attributes and specific behaviors. Correlation isn’t causation so it is a mistake to assume just because I did X and got Y that X was responsible for Y. That said, numerous trials and repeatability can start to point in the right direction. I don’t think attraction can be reduced to a couple of input variables. Push button X, panties come off. That is one extreme view. The other extreme view is attraction defies description and every single situation is entirely different and unique. I think that is equally as absurd. Women differ. One woman’s perception that something is transparently try hard is something that may “work” on a different woman. Definitely not a perfect science.
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